tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2695100716722609171.post5141220134868683474..comments2023-05-15T05:55:54.718-07:00Comments on Nicbeast's Nest: Seriously...I need to get a new hobby...and other topics...nicbeasthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03621557557944057047noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2695100716722609171.post-78849196383914390812007-07-20T22:18:00.000-07:002007-07-20T22:18:00.000-07:00Dude! Your friend and I are sooo in the same boat....Dude! Your friend and I are sooo in the same boat. Well, minus the "someone new" aspect. BF and I constantly get on each other's nerves and are just waiting for the lease to be up at this point. *sigh* 9 months and counting. How sad are we? Anyhow, as someone who's currently in a "blah" relationship, I'm gonna totally have to agree with <B>Bel</B> and <B>MB</B>. You've gotta do what makes you happy. That may mean being on your own for awhile (which is totally my plan). You don't wanna wake up in 4 years and feel like you missed out on something great. :)<BR/><BR/>and <B>Nic</B>, I wish I was able to find a new hobby aside from falling on my ass as well. I am one clumsy bitch. So don't feel bad. Hahahaha.AJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15203169691921994569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2695100716722609171.post-8699126407335924742007-07-20T22:04:00.000-07:002007-07-20T22:04:00.000-07:00Thanks for the concern Bel. I am ok. Just a litt...Thanks for the concern Bel. I am ok. Just a little sore. <BR/><BR/>And MB, I don't do sweaters...too hard. I am not that good! LOL. He is more likely to get the warmer!Cole Goodwinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16139390459327043057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2695100716722609171.post-87047713722437421752007-07-20T06:10:00.000-07:002007-07-20T06:10:00.000-07:00So, you're a clutzo like me, eh? Welcome to my wo...So, you're a clutzo like me, eh? Welcome to my world. *snicker*<BR/><BR/><B>BD</B> wants to know when he should expect his cream-colored cable knit sweater? OK, that's my request for him...if he was requesting, I'm sure it would be some kind of warmer.<BR/>*insert dirty thought here*<BR/><BR/>Poor friend. Life is full of choices - damn choices! If she's that unhappy and unfulfilled in her current relationship, chances are her man is too and mulling over the same thoughts that she is right now. I think choosing comfort and security over personal happiness is a huge risk for people, especially when they don't have children. People always say that they need to be financially prepared before they have kids. WRONG! They need to be happy with who they are and who they're with first and foremost. I agree with <B>Bel</B>, if there are no children involved, fly, fly away if there's no light at the end of the tunnel.<BR/><BR/>While I'm a big believer in second chances, the fact of the matter is that <B>BOTH</B> parties need to be willing to put in the effort. If there's a will, there's a way. If there's no will, there's no way. I wish your friend all the best with whatever she decides.Mama Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13322422780982937965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2695100716722609171.post-19298104657728123222007-07-20T02:01:00.000-07:002007-07-20T02:01:00.000-07:00That most certainly is a hard one... If there are ...That most certainly is a hard one... If there are no children involved, I'd say, go with your heart, <B>whoever you are</B>. Life is too short to play things safe. If you no longer feel (in) love (for/with) the person you are with now, then by all means, go for the one who gives you butterflies. Material security is something come by much more easily than love. Even if this new relationship fails, you will never have to ask yourself whether you let slip away the one chance you had at true love/passion. Of course, the difficult part is, are you truly out of love with the one you share your life with now?<BR/>Don't be afraid of hurting; it sounds to me you are already now, both yourself and your partner.<BR/><BR/><B>Nic</B>, did you see a doctor? You might have hurt something you're not aware of...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2695100716722609171.post-39778637202507680622007-07-19T19:01:00.000-07:002007-07-19T19:01:00.000-07:00*Wipes away tears*Thanks Nicky*Wipes away tears*<BR/>Thanks NickyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com